I don't have nothing against MGTOW but I dissagree with them, i understand that they had hard time with women or even used and abused but they must understand that not all women are like that and there are good women. Gonzalo Lira (RIP), Rob Mudler and Rich Cooper said it better men should not become MGTOW they should try hard and find a good woman. 8 billion people on this planet 4 billion are women i'm sure you can find a good wife.
For MGTOW is good if you are very religious men and you want to go to monasterry as a monk, otherwise it is better to find a woman.
MGTOW is basically feminism for men.
@Nicholas_Chris Says:
Bad boys are bad boys, they do not care about anyone not even women, in fact they use and abuse women. Bad boys don't have morals, don't respect anyone this is the reason they are called bad boys. Bad boys also encourage pickup artistry, games, manipulation narcisism, violence, backstabbing, alchoolism drgs (can't say the entire word). He can't be fixed, and it's best to avoid this type of guy. Women will have their heart broken. Bad boys should stay with bad girls they are ment for each other.
The nice guy is good but the problem is that the nice guy can't say NO in most cases and also is concerned about other happines, not their one, they are opposite of the bad boys but also have dissadvantages. He has no boundaries and in my opinion everyone should have boundaries. It's OK to care about others but also take care of yourself and be friends only with those who care about you and want your best. The nice guy sacrifices for everyone instead of sacrificing for those who appreciate and deserve. Unfortunatelly bad women will use them. Lucky part is that he can fix the dissadvantages improve himself.
The good guy. There is a difference between good guy and nice guy, a good guy is a good friend, husband, but also has boundaries and rules, if you don't respect him your out, and it's hard to win him back. Opposite of the bad boys and doesn't agree with some parts of the nice guy He only cares and sacrifice for those who deserve and appreciate. Bad women can't use him. This is the guy you need.
Hypergamy applies to both men and women, every man and women have their own hypergamy.
The problem with hypergamy is that most women (not all women) only look at the looks money and status (LMS), but are not interested in morals. Morals are very important especially when you want to start a familly, the average guy doesn't have or have one or two of the looks, money and status but most of them have morals and make great husbands. Let's say you meet a guy with looks, money, status and morals (LMSM) he has his own hypergamy and most women will be invisible, also these type of men are 1-2% of population just like women. Most of us have advantages and disadvantages. The men with (LMS) either want to marry women of their social status or sleep with many women (pickup artistry). My advice is that women should date men that have morals and from their social circle and social status. I also don't trust dating sites. My advice is that women should date a guy with morals (good guy) a guy will morals will make a great huband and also improve their social status and everyone respects him. Guys with morals are not interested in mansion, expenisve cars, they want a nice house a nice familly and a good stable job. Unfortunatelly in today's society guys without morals (bad boys) and with high social status are seen as heroes and guys with morals are seen as the lazy, bad guy We live in an upside down world today.
The problem with hypergamy in men is that when they see a good looking women they think she is perfect they don't try to see other important aspects like morals, we don't care about money, and when it comes to status we are interested, is she a kind person? does she want a familly? does she respects familly value? is she a virgin? (it is important in conservative cultures) does she understands that both men and women should work togheter and take care of the other? If a women doesn't have this type of mindset then we are not interested we want a women that fits all categories. Yes there are good women but men should try hard to meet these women and you need luck. Back to men that only value beauty in a women they either have no experience with women and this where simping starts, sooner or later they realize that there is more than physical beauty and the other type of men only care about hookup .
Human psychology is very complex.
There is an old saying, after a few days you get tired of a beautiful person or get repulsed or find somenone who is more beautiful but you will never get tired or repulsed by a good person.
But this is my opinion. P.S. English is not my language and i'm doing my best to write correctly.
@Nicholas_Chris Says:
I recommend you to watch Rich Cooper, Alexander Grace, LFA, LFA Power House, Rob Mudler and AGW. They explain perfectly the relationship between man and women, hypergamy, long term relationship.
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