Amen sister in Christ! If a man or a woman feels they need to hide money from their spouse then they married the wrong person. They did not listen to the Holy Spirit before getting married.
@timpack3261 Says:
A committed covenant marriage based on love and respect ,is forever
@Myfitwallet Says:
I love it! Protect your marriage with prayer. My wife and I have being married for 11 years and loving it. We pray together and have at least one meal together at the diner table (no tv or a phone during that time unless needed during discussion).
@kryptonianninja Says:
I like the way Michael Knowles put it. You can go ahead and make a prenup. Just make it different than the traditional prenup. Have the prenup say that whoever is responsible for dissolving the marriage...that individual walks away with nothing.
@WarrenGRamm Says:
AMEN PRAISE GOD!!! Way to go Estee! This is so awesome I’m at a loss for words! 👏👏👏👏
@heatherlowe3698 Says:
Did you have any assets to protect?
@cimmerian7130 Says:
This lady gives off strong "stag/vixen" vibes. Like this is a "hat" she wears, and her submission is fetishized. It's very evocative of BPD. The other vids of her all dolled up, shirt buttons about to burst around her big tits ostentatiously in the frame.... something else is going on, here, and the 'trad wife' thing seems like a bandaid for trauma in this case.
@dmitryostrovsky5763 Says:
Good for you. I very much respect your decision. I sense that you will never be divorced. If widowed, you will remarry because you are a very special person and pray and have faith. Dima
@kurthealy9508 Says:
Nice. Agree
@godslionesswarrior1982 Says:
Can I honestly say how much I look up to this lifestyle. When I was a kid my stepmother was a stay-at-home provider and my dad was at work and they have been married for the last 40 years. I honestly agree with you you have to pick the right person! Estee, thank you so much for your input and advice God Bless you
@GabrieleAnna Says:
Your reasoning isn’t consistent, I’m afraid. So Social Media is the main culprit regarding divorce cause it’s spreading wrong ideas. While agreeing in general - social media indeed promotes a bunch of wrong and sometimes devastating ideas, causing harm and violating self esteem. But you are leading with the example of your parents and your in law’s divorce - they may not belong to a generation that was already influenced by social media a great deal/ just saying…
An advice to all the girls out there: if you don’t want a prenup get an education and a profession! Then you can decide to live a traditional lifestyle and when times get rough you can either contribute to your family’s income or provide for yourself if necessary!
@MGS.037 Says:
Amen for the last sentence! Hallelujah to Lord Jesus Christ!
@skristianf Says:
May God bless you and your family. Thank you for sharing your example.
@Bhazor Says:
So you gone head first into the crazy then. And still no baby.
@20truck Says:
I don't understand why you said you wouldn't have a prenup, the only reason you need a prenup is if one person in the marriage is coming in with the considerably more assets than the other one. Prenups are designed for the instance if two people are getting married and one of the people is rather wealthy in the other one is not, that is so the first person doesn't lose everything if the other person decides to leave. For instance take myself If I get married again I will without a doubt have a prenup, own a very large business and unless I'm marry another person that has much the same thing I'm not going to risk losing that in the event something were to happen to our marriage, not that I think that would happen but I got divorced once and I didn't think I would that time because a woman that cheated because she didn't get her way. Now most states will say in a divorce you leave with what you came with so you have a rather large amount of assets You're allowed to take those assets with you plus any money those assets were to make You get to keep as well, but divorce can be very nasty and it's almost a 50% chance it's going to happen, matter of fact my lawyer told me straight up the day you get married is the day you're divorce begins. Anyway I hope the best for you and your husband and I hope it works out I have seen couples that have been married for 70 years and that takes a very special type of person.
@MCAK0306 Says:
Je suis française et suis tombée sur votre chaîne youtube par hasard. Quel bonheur de tomber sur une femme qui partage les mêmes valeurs traditionnelles et qui en plus est une soeur en Jésus-Christ.
Vous êtes une femme formidable et tant pis si ça ne plait pas à certains !
@GoddessYvonne3 Says:
God intended marriage that is heaven❤❤❤Trolls narcissist renounce these demons in the Mighty Matchless name of Jesus...they are evil and try to destroy anybody their own children they are the varmint on earth
@esharoychoudhury4119 Says:
Estee if stupidity had a face it will be yours for sure🙄
@MagnusAnand Says:
Of course you don’t want a prenup, you are being benefited by not having one.
@MiguelSalazar-g7p Says:
👍
@jameseduardnicolas1385 Says:
both of you are Christians/believers 👍🙏❤️
Jesus Christ should always be the center of marriage 🙏
@johnlozano5054 Says:
I wouldn't be surprised if most women envy you and wish you the worst in your marriage. They envy what they didn't have.
@revlura Says:
My wife and I made the same agreement while engaged - that the "D" word would never be discussed or even joked about in our marriage. We believe that when you consider it a possibility, or plan for it with a prenup, or entertain it on any level, you increase you chances to have one. We are celebrating our 30 year anniversary this week. Three keys to our 30 years have been 1) Christ Centered, 2) Communication, and 3) Conflict Resolution.
@yaakovkrakowich4563 Says:
Prenups and understanding how they can be revoked is a MUST for every man.
@won2beme Says:
When are you having babies
@erikmoore5831 Says:
I appreciate your comment for a back up plan for the worst case scenario if your spouse dies, but isn’t a prenuptial agreement just a back up plan to keep a divorce as you say ‘nice’. I respect your commitments to one another but we are all humans. As much as we can pray for perfect outcomes, but sometimes God has a different plan in store for one of us. I’m a divorce attorney and just like an oncologist, we don’t want more cancer, especially in marital relationships.
@madisontucker6661 Says:
If your with the wrong person there IS no making it work!! Dont judge people for getting divorced. They aint doing it for fun. A guy I used to work with dovorced his wife. He told me that she beat him with a foldable chair. Why stay married to some one like that?
@JmGmail Says:
Life insurance does not help in divorce. I get why u could not ask him for prenup since you were trying to trap him into a marriage with fake hair and breasts.
@MG77740 Says:
What an awesome woman! I agree with all of her points.
@ourcalmmusic Says:
8+ years and no prenup. No concept of divorce and it's not happening in my marriage. I showed your videos to my wife and she agreed with a lot of things you said. I agree with 98% of things you say as well. :) We both have life insurance. :)
@marisolfrancis1591 Says:
Strongly agree with you Estee!
So young and so wise! 😊
@sambailie4773 Says:
So the fact you state a prenup regarding not asking hubby to sign one, this indicates you’re a very wealthy lady so are you qualified to tell other women not to have a backup plan as you have family money and an influencer job on YT. I’m a Christian lady, almost 48 and I went to university etc before I started dating. Married my first kiss, first boyfriend, waited for sex within marriage but still ensured I had my backup plan in case I needed it. My mother was a child bride and we lived in absolute poverty. Having no options ain’t pretty when your kid has no shoes and there’s a food scarcity. Girls, please….. have a backup plan. My father became mentally ill when I was a baby… these things happen. I like Estee but respectfully, you live in a bubble
@notsorry3631 Says:
I think if you have given up the best years of your life and gave up a career for a man, you should definitely get something out of it until you can figure something out.
@monkeyhugs2434 Says:
What you're saying is true. God hates a divorce and you should never plan on it down the road for if it doesn't work out. Gods word gives us every tool we need to have a happy loving family and marriage. You're right never say the D WORD. The more you do the more it puts the idea in action.
@trinityosenbach7517 Says:
I want a link for all her dresses😭
@ShivMathur Says:
I have made a video on arranged marriage on my channel
@jamessanders8895 Says:
My name is Christina and I'm using my husband's account to comment. I think marriage is about deep mutual respect, family, commitment, and love. I love your channel and will keep watching. God bless and protect you and your family!
John 3:16 ❤🎉
@alyxxa6182 Says:
Have him put $7,000 Per year into a Roth IRA for you. In 20 years it will be worth $423,027.58. Then the compounding interest will accumulate to around $3,099,973.00 in your 60s. No matter what, you WILL NEED RETIREMENT SAVINGS.
@BellaJoyeuse Says:
I love and normally fully agree with you 100% - however, on rare circumstances a prenup would save women and children. I also thoroughly vetted my husband, trusted him, a lot of people in the community and church spoke very highly of him- unfortunately I was in one of those very rare circumstances and he later he was diagnosed (Court ordered forensic investigation as well as a full psychological test). I was a trad wife with children. But I and my children greatly suffered. In my opinion and to me it's common sense- a loving trustworthy man would want a good legal prenup to offer you and your future children security. You're giving up everything for this and if you end up in a rare situation or he changes and leaves you one day (I know it's hard to believe, but it happens to some trad wives), it is the children who will suffer the most. A loving trustworthy man would have no problem with a prenup- but other men do. So if he's truly trustworthy- he'll give you this security and safety- and you'd likely not need it.
@ElenasBarre Says:
Estee, I agree with you. We don't use the "D-word" either. 😂 Love this video. ❤ Keep up the great work. 🔥👏💯🤩
@johngunckel5629 Says:
Now you see who watches your videos. Women who want nothing but what's best for them. Lazy women looking to stay at home and not work. Thanks for promoting laziness. Even though it may not have been your intentions.
@adamtedder1012 Says:
Two big reasons you dont got to worry.
@selohcin Says:
This is so silly. OF COURSE the woman doesn't need a pre-nup; the courts will always favor her during the divorce proceedings! The question here is whether a man needs one, not a woman.
@TheTweetybird1122 Says:
Just followed and glad I did.
Can you do one on dating in this day and age?
@RG-so7jq Says:
Bed time stories?
@jeffsavage7135 Says:
My wife and I got together and neither of us had anything worth protecting in a pre-nup. We are now doing very well because we have always tried to be a team and worked together for it. We are closer now than when we got together 25 years ago.
@n.manasseh8615 Says:
I guess if you're married, then as a woman the laws of your State would protect you in a divorce and the child support laws would protect the children.
But life happens and the stats are the stats. Almost HALF of you will have a divorce. Unfortunately we have NOT been able to change that stat.
So... if I were going to be a stay at home wife, sacrificing my career and my life for the benefit of my children and my husband and depend totally upon my husband and his income; then I would seriously consider family counseling, financial counseling and a prenup.
Probably want to get that agreement for him to carry life insurance written into the prenup. Also some written guarantees securing you as primary beneficiary on all assets.
Men provide PROVISION & PROTECTION. Thanks for trusting us men but also if he loves you then he'll be more than willing to protect you physically, legally and financially.
@yaquirisvasquez5323 Says:
what are your thought about being quiverfull
@yaquirisvasquez5323 Says:
but what if I want to have money to buy the things that I want ?
@yaquirisvasquez5323 Says:
can you tell us what are your thought on home schooling, how do you handle kids and chores all at the same times plus home schooling ?
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