Yeah - they exist if one or both are gay. Otherwise NOT!!!
@jlleibold1974 Says:
It's exactly what I did to respect my husband. His friends were only my friends when he was around. Some of his friends tried to pull some low-down crap when he wasn't around. Whenever they got wind of us having an issue.... Sometimes they overly wanted to help. Not because I told them but because my husband was to them. You know just normal issues here and there. A few popped up at my door when they knew my husband wasn't going to be around. Little did they know I'm not a hoe and I actually love my husband in both good and bad times. When it comes to others relationships I am not friends with the husband's unless the wives are around. I do not message men or talk to someone else's Man without the woman around. I befriend single men but even that sometimes they have ulterior motives and I make it pretty clear that I don't care. I don't goggle. I can be friends single man which I did not do before when my husband was the only man that were allowed around when my husband was alive my sons, their friends, and siblings. No man was stepping inside of my house without my husband being there. There is not a time that my husband did not trust me. The women is family are cheaters. Well first he was a little nervous.... He'd been cheated on and the women is family like to cheat. I gave him no reason to question me. I didn't disappear. I was always where I said I would be. I never stayed gone for long amount of time by my choice. I would call if I might be a little late. I didn't get all weird over men on the television. I didn't make comments that would make my husband feel less than what he was. I didn't put him down even though when he was younger sometimes I had to let him know when he was wrong. I put him and my family first. Yep even before myself. I didn't want any nasty cheating drama or paranoia. It's all hard enough without all that mess.
@bradleymcdonald6273 Says:
as a single male... When I find out a female has a partner... I treat them differently, as in, I would never ask a female with a partner to hang out with just the two of us
for example... I organised a work get-together... it was at a brewery/resturaunt where we would all meet up... the first one to show up was a married woman (same age as me, by herself) I told her, if Nobody else shows up in 30 mins, we can just leave - go our separate ways... not because I don't like her or don't enjoy her company... but because I do not want to have lunch at a "brewery" with a married woman - when both will most likely at the brewery be having a drink... and when they both enjoy each others company... THATS ASKING FOR TROUBLE... in some situations, you have to flee
@leoburnette5725 Says:
Candace Owens & Charlie Kirk are great examples of male/female friendships.
@nicholasvondoelln6814 Says:
My attitude is give them enough rope to hang themselves with. You can be the overbearing jealous boyfriend and try to police their social life day in and day out possibly driving them into another mans arms. Or you can monitor letting them doing what they want and find out whether or not they are going to cheat on you through observation. This goes both ways. I was just watching a video the other day about a woman that wouldn't let her boyfriend go into the bathroom with his phone and I can honestly say if he isn't cheating he will be soon. Not to mention do you want to be in a relationship with someone that makes you feel that jealous?🤔
@Tylerd838 Says:
I mean that’s kind of dumb but whatever
@AdamSPARTAN76 Says:
A fenale "friend" is ALWAYS a friend of my wife and NEVER someone is spend time with 1:1
@travr6 Says:
No man wants to be friends with a woman.
@TheRealGiacomoKnox Says:
There is no reason if you are married do you have a friend of the opposite gender. That is, if that friend is unmarried. Do you have a great potential for an affair because if your marriage start to go south, you will rely on that opposite gender friend for advice and comfort… And then here comes Satan to influence you to do wrong.
@ClintLowe Says:
I can have female friends but the rule is they have to be ugly. They gotta look like a homie.
@xinzhao3755 Says:
Just be open with your wife. If one of your female friends starts acting suspicious. Tell her and end that friendship asap. Ain't that hard lol.
@jackjohnson1072 Says:
What's wrong with friends wanting to sleep with each other? Who said that you can't be friends with someone you want to sleep with?
@stevebert2936 Says:
how high can you be to make such a ridiculous statement?
@albertbecerra Says:
Wow, that's so simple yet pretty brilliant at the same time
@kellygordon2021 Says:
I disagree. If you are doing a little intrapment. You are in the wrong. Do not do that little test. If you do, you are the bad friend. Period.
@whitneypay515 Says:
I agree. When you are married you need a nice big wall to protect your marriage.
@zzzut Says:
I am gay and I am not even remotely tempted to sleep with my gay friends. Yet, most straight people think that gays are the ones who are obsessed with sex.
@howey935 Says:
I only have 1 female friend and i see her more as a sister than a friend. Ive known her my whole life and were next door neighbours from birth until i left home when i was 16.
@jacrotinger8596 Says:
So many people have listed and then slept with spouses friend. Boundaries are healthy. Lack of them is a problem. Guard your marriage
@eamoncrawford Says:
Wow, She is NOT an idiot!
@michaelhenry4405 Says:
False. Just because you can't understand how to have female friends doesn't mean that men can't have female friends. You guys are addicted to lusting for woman only.
The other thing also is, "always want to sleep with them" isn't a friend. That's an opportunist. Willing to sleep with is a different concept than wanting to sleep with. Know the difference.
@JCMoorer Says:
He's right.
@benjaminmarker Says:
Missing out on a lot of beautiful friendships.
@SkyKing101010 Says:
What we're talking about in a 'Platonic' relationship.
That's a relationship where a man and a woman truly are friends with no sex involved; usually not even seriously considered.
@uroborous01 Says:
In the army i do have female friends but they are all soldiers or from way back when. And 9 times out of 10 said female friend is also married or a lesbian so… yeah. Not bedroom option-able.
@ohifonlyx33 Says:
I have a few male friends that I grew up in church with. Noth have girls. Here's the thing: we qlways just hang out in a group. I 2puld jever consider qsking a guy friend to hang out alone. I mean it even felt weird asking them to help my parents move.
@gingerdad127 Says:
In our marriage, all friends become friends of the couple. Also, we choose friendships with people who have wholesome values, church, and family oriented. We've been married since 2007, and the friends who've displayed very "sexual" behaviours (e.g. promiscuity, watching porn, having affairs etc) fell off our radar fairly quickly because our values no longer matched
@croach69 Says:
I really dont talk to women even though i can. I give them a flat look, with a half ass smile. No teeth. I keep to myself. Unless they need the boss. And yes i do boss things. Even with coworkers, i just say they look pretty, but never more then that
@MrTom1468 Says:
If you have a best friend that is a man and he doesnt want to bang you . . . You are either ugly or he is a liar
@badgodsit Says:
OH DANG, missed opportunity!!! You should have cut to the scene in “When Harry Met Sally” where it goes(forgive me, not verbatim) “so you’re saying a man can be friends with someone he’s not sexually attracted to” and the answer is “no, you pretty much want to nail them too”.
@americanmonster8342 Says:
For real.
@deanwinchester6654 Says:
Facts, who's got time for female friends. Like honestly I see no worth to that. Rather hang with my buddies or myself. Already got gf, got myself a female friend
@blueeyes3 Says:
That's a biblical principle
Good rule of thumb.
@kinosamam Says:
Lol I tested the boi's when we did a group meet up. 5 out of 10 wanted to get in bed with me😂. On the one hand, it made me feel special, on the other hand I felt like a rabbit around wolves 😅
@putricinthia Says:
I’m still try to understand those things, because in my life in my country, we not friends anymore with all the ex, (as respect to our new partner), except with ur ex husband (in the sake of ur kids), but here, we must respect their choice to still keep friendships with their ex… kind of weird for me
@jillmcclellan2844 Says:
When Harry Met Sally
@Lybarger12b Says:
You know what's crazy I'm a 6 ft 215 lb veteran and I make around 6 grand a month. I got told I'm incredibly attractive but I don't make enough money for them. Thats 72k a year and im told im broke. Lmao sure honey I'm definitely broke f****** idiots
@michaelosborn6812 Says:
If there is a guy friend it’s about a 99.999% chance he wants to sleep with you if you think I’m wrong ask your guy friend if he wants to sleep with you I guarantee it won’t be noooo but we are friends unless there is something wrong with you or he’s gay
@dogwalkerlindsey Says:
This is pretty outrageous, I sort of see where you are coming from, but I feel like the issues that you mention in this video fadeaway after ages 23 to 25 or so. I have always had more guy friends than girlfriends. I’m finally at an age, 28, where I am realizing the importance of having girlfriends around me, so I am making extra effort to further develop friendships with my girls. However, I just gravitate towards men as friends, because my personality is just more like that of a male, or perhaps more of one that gets along with other guys better. I have been in the same relationship with a man for almost 6 years now, and all of my dude, friends know my boyfriend, and they all like each other.. All of my male friends are platonic friendships, and my guy friends have a good understanding of that.
@jeffforbess6802 Says:
Sure there can,… if one is gay. Even then…it’s iffy.
@khyronkravshera7774 Says:
I have had 2-3 female friends in my adult life. All were women I had slept with at one point and no longer had any desire to sleep with again.
@richieevans8617 Says:
MY FEMALE FRIENDS R JUST FRIENDS I CAN'T STAND HANGING OUT WITH GUYS , IT'S ALWAYS WHO CAN TOP EACH OTHER BULL SHIT ....
IF I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND THAN I GO TOO THEM N DEALING WITH GUYS ALWAYS GIVE U DRAMA ....
@stephanien2323 Says:
He is absolutely right. Neither one should have friendships of the opposite gender.
@brettmarshall5895 Says:
This rule should be applied both ways.
@nicholasbyram296 Says:
I'm a male nurse, if you aren't friends with the girl boss, you don't get a vacation day granted for years and they ask you to "donate" paid time off so it isnt wasted.
@hombreenojado Says:
If you're married? Definitely. If you're single you may have female friends. I have female friends who are married. I do NOT want to sleep with them! I also have lesbian friends. I'm obviously not sleeping with them.
@elconquistadorism Says:
Don't trust your wife's friends either!!
@skinny4070 Says:
If a female coworker asked if i wanted to come over itd be a 💩 move cause they are all married
@rudelimit12 Says:
She wants to be your friend because she gets the benefits. And you don’t get shit
@rudelimit12 Says:
Simply put. There are no benefits to being friends with a female.
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